Friday, August 12, 2022
HomeUncategorizedCarla Abellana breaks silence amid split humors with Tom Rodriquez

Carla Abellana breaks silence amid split humors with Tom Rodriquez

-

Following her failed marriage to Tom Rodriquez, Kapuso actress Carla Abellana has finally breaks her silence.

Carla was recently admonished by a netizen for deleting a comment from her YouTube channel, which supposedly spurred the actress to address suspicions regarding her relationship with the actor.

The netizen said, “And my comment was removed hahaha. Bakit? Takot ka mabasa na hypocrite ka. Wag ka magbait baitan kasi hindi ka mabait.”

“Ayaw ko lang po ng negativity,” replied Carla.

Carla should not have “liked” unpleasant remarks about Tom, the netizen remarked, and they should have addressed their marital issues peacefully.

“Ayaw mo ng negativity sana d ka nalang nag like sa mga nega comments kay Tom, sana nung nagkaproblema kayo sana di ka nalang nag igs na humihingi ka ng tulong? Sana nag usap na lang kayo, hindi yung hindi mo kinakausap tapos ngayon may balita nag aasikaso ka ng annulment.

Inaamin naman ni Tom nagkamali sya pero d naman po ata tama na natiis nyo sya na hindi kausapin. Sana hinayaan mo syang magpaliwanag, kaya lang marami ng nakisawsaw, like noon yung isa sa mga bff mo nag igs about narcissist, tapos may mga fans si Tom na sinasabi narcissist ka. Sana man lang po mag usap kayo ng maayos ng asawa mo.

“Kaya siguro nag post si Tom kasi nagsawa na sya sa kahihintay na kausapin mo sya. Hindi po kayo magkaka peace of mind kung di kayo nag uusap mag asawa. Kung gusto mong maging masaya ka mag usap kayong mag asawa. Sabihin mo sa kanya lahat ng hinanakit mo hindi yung dine deadma mo sya,” said the netizen.

Carla admitted that she indeed “liked” a post yet she clarified that she only did it once.

“Opo, naglike po ako, pero yun lang po ang ginawa ko. Hindi ko na po yun inulit. Naglike lang po ako pero hindi ko ginawa ng paulit-ulit at ng matagal.

She then added a response, revealing her thoughts on what purportedly occurred during her failed relationship with Tom.

Ang taong lubos na nasaktan hirap pong pigilang hindi ilabas ang galit sa anumang paraan. I was disrespected. I was betrayed. I was lied to. I was used. I was shamed. I was made to look so stupid.”

Despite the pain Tom caused her and her family, the actress revealed that she never did anything vile to him and that she gave him all she had during their seven-year relationship.

“Wala po akong ginawang masama kay Tom. Wala po akong ibinigay kay Tom kundi tunay na pagmamahal, respeto, pag-aalaga, pag-aaruga, pag-unawa, pagtitiis, sangkatutak na pagpapatawad, milya-milyang pasensya, paniniwala, pagtiwala, pag-aasikaso, pag protekta, lahat lahat na. Binigay ko po buong buhay ko sa kanya.”

Carla stated that she had to put up with the pain and suppress her emotions out of fear of Tom harming her.

“7 na taon po akong bawal magalit, magtampo, masaktan, mabigo, malungkot, madismaya dahil hindi po pwede. Makakatikim po ako kahit subukan ko pong ipaliwanag sa kanya na nasasaktan niya ako at hindi po tama ang mga ginagawa niya. Paulit-ulit ko pong pinapaalala sa kanya na hindi po ako kalaban at mabuti po ang kalooban at intensyon ko.

7 na taon pong naipon sa loob ko lahat yun. Gustuhin at kailangan ko man pong ilabas, lubos na nakakakatakot po. Ilang beses ko po siyang hinikayat na magpatingin, magpagamot at magpagaling dahil yun din po ang gumana sa akin. Pero wala pa rin po. Tinanggap ko pa rin po siyang ng walang pagdududa kahit wala pong pagbabago.”

Carla claimed she put her heart and her into her relationship with Tom to the point that she had nothing left for herself.

“Hinarap ko po siya sa altar. Buong puso po akong determinadong alagaan ang pagsasama at pagmamahal namin, at panindigan ang mga sinumpaan namin sa harap ng Diyos. Sa dami po ng binigay ko kay Tom wala na pong natira sakin. Galit, pride at ego ko, siya narin po ang kumuha sakin at hinayaan ko naman pong kunin din po niya.” 

Hence, Carla stated that liking “negative comments” about Tom was nothing compared to the suffering she and her family went through because of Tom.

“Sa lala po ng sakit, pambabastos, panloloko, pandudurog, paninira, panggagamit at pagtataksil po niya, mga tinago niya, napakadali pong ibalik sa kanya sa paraan ng pagganti. Pero hindi po ako ganun. Hindi po ako bobo. Hindi po ako lalaban kahit tapak-tapakan na po ako ng husto.”

Carla also defended herself against the imputations of the netizens about her. 

“Hindi po ako mababaw. Hindi po ako masamang tao. Kung ano po ang nakikita, naririnig at nababasa ninyo online ay kakarampot lang po ng hindi po ninyo nakikita, naririnig at nababasa kapag wala pong kahit anong camerang naka record. Hindi po ako masamang tao tulad ng sinasabi, nararamdaman, naririnig at nakikita po ninyo online, sa TV, etc.”

She concluded by stating how nicely her own family had raised her.

“Pinalaki po ako ng nanay at lola ko na marunong rumespeto, umunawa, magmahal, magpatawad, magpasalamat, magpakumbaba, at higit sa lahat may takot po siya Diyos.”

Carla, who married Tom in October 2021, was previously reported to be preparing for her annulment with the actor.

Related articles

Stay Connected

138,422FansLike
8,530FollowersFollow
361,888FollowersFollow
8,971SubscribersSubscribe

Latest posts